Every year I read Amy Tan’s novel The Joy Luck Club. It is part of my work’s Honors American Literature program. One of the chapters in the 3rd book is called “Magpies” Basically, when a person cried into this lake, a frog ate the tears and it laid eggs that eventually turned into this happy bird called the magpie. It is an analogy for people feeding off of other’s tears and sorrow to create their happiness.
This whole media coverage of the Polygamist cult that was raided in Texas reminds me of the magpie story. Even NPR is covering the story. Friends I know who still have TV tell me it is all the rage on the fake news stations. Why do we need to get happiness from other’s sorrows?
Let me make this real clear. I do not agree with under aged children being married off, raped, and having 3 kids by the time she is 16. But in the end, as much as I hate oppressive religions that brain wash people, who cares what others do and believe as long as they do not hurt you or innocents? Really, except for the sexual abuse for the children, do we really care what this cult does? They do not want the attention and what to stay isolated by themselves. Is it necessary to flaunt what most people would call weird practices? I even saw an article today that talked about Moron fashion and where this cult’s clothing style came from.
This is a lasting effect of the Puritans. These people of yesteryears got all up into peoples business. People are naturally curious, so when this is promoted in the most hurtful sense and given credence, others will follow. And boy does the USA do this now. All people care about is that you are like them. Crazy Christians of all sects, Muslins, Jews, Islamics, ect. They all think their way is the right way and everyone else is going to “hell”.
Who cares? If you do not believe in abortion… great… do not get one. Do not worry about others If you believe in monogamous relationships… great do that. Only worry about finding a mate that agrees with you. Hate pornography. Do not look at it. Let other’s choose what they want to view. Abstinence only? Only if you actually did that and keep it to yourself. And the list goes on. It is not anyone’s duty to pick on other people.
I see so many people who are out to hate others. It is quite scary. They put people down and then bask in the false happiness they think they are experiencing. The hallways of a high school shows this. It is a magnified version of society. The niceties are not required yet.
So as more and more is said about they polygamists. As their lived are looked on with a magnified glass, I hope you are feeling happy. Does it give you pleasure to know you are not that “weird”. Giggle that you are not that crazy? Be careful what you wish for. Karma is not all happy happy joy joy all the time. You might find yourself looking in the mirror (or the TV for that matter) and looking at yourself.